
Betty Coleman – Final moments were a celebration
Kimberley KielleyShilo Stag Newspaper––Classically trained opera singer Joslin Dennis sang to her grandmother Betty Coleman one last time on Nov. 24.Betty Jean Coleman, a long-time resident of Brandon, Manitoba, died peacefully that day at home in Victoria, B.C., surrounded by family. She was 95.She had chosen medically assisted death after a life-altering, inoperable injury that impacted life as she knew it.Daughter Susan Romphf from Victoria, and son Bob Coleman of Kentucky were also with her when she died.Betty was a former Honorary Colonel of 26 Field Regiment RCA, and patron of HMCS Brandon. She moved to Vancouver Island seven years ago from her beloved prairie home.Her final moments were a celebration, said Romphf, adding it was important for her to die in her own bed in the apartment she called home.An hour before she died, Betty and her daughter sipped chilled dry white wine from a box, waiting for the doctor, reminiscing with family members. It was the perfect ending to a perfect day. Betty chose death on her terms, according to the family.“It was beautiful,” said Romphf, recalling the day. “My brother Bob had bourbon on ice on Zoom with his wife and three kids, while we waited for the doctor.”Betty decided choosing her own death after attending a seminar on medically assisted death, rather than waiting for it to take her, said Romphf.“Mum didn’t shy away from discussing it. We had time to prepare. She was ready to go.”Her life was altered after a fall that broke her hip. “She was backing up with her walker and sat down and landed on her bum in the kitchen. She phoned to tell me she’d fallen and refused to go to hospital. There was a show on TV she wanted to see,” said Romphf. Eventually, she agreed to seek medical help. The...





























